We had a wonderful time on Sunday – it exceeded my every expectation and then some! A big part of what made it so special was knowing that so many of you around the globe were doing your own rituals to honor the Golden One on that day too. As you can see, close to a dozen folks chimed in here with their plans and I got equally that many who wrote to me privately. In fact there were so many last minute offerings that we had to make a special trip into Dver’s work the morning of the festival to print them all off – but it was well worth it to see the altar full of so much beauty and love for Aphrodite.
We had a very pleasant stroll from Dver’s work to the river, giving me a chance to show off my neighborhood and Dver to point out all the different varieties of blooming flowers and fruit trees which she somehow knew the names of. We picked a bouquet of many-colored wild roses (some were actually growing in people’s yards, but they aren’t going to notice) and found a nice little grotto on the river bank to set up our makeshift shrine. We ended up having to move about twenty feet down from our original location because there were some noisy vagrants having their own Rhodophoria celebration, but that worked out for the best because the place we eventually settled on was absolutely perfect. There were all these concrete blocks that looked like primitive altars including one that was moss covered and nestled under the exposed branches of a tree. Beside it was a pair of stately birches which was especially appropriate considering the associations the birch tends to have with fertility and femininity. We set our shrine up there with Aphrodite’s statue placed on a ledge the offerings beneath that and our candle and incense even lower down. Before we set everything up I bathed the goddess in the waters of the Willamette and then Dver anointed her with jasmine-scented oil. We then presented her with our offerings and the prayers, hymns and beautiful artwork that you guys contributed. Then Dver recited the hymn I composed in Aphrodite’s honor with her strong, musical voice which was so lovely that it attracted a boy and girl duck who climbed out of the water and sat on the beach behind us, joining in the festivity! We then poured out most of a bottle of jasmine-flavored mead that Dver had made and watched the foam settle and the fragrant kyphi and frankincense blend we burnt for her rise up to the heavens. Amusingly that led us to notice that the piece of cloth hanging from the birch tree right above the statue of Aphrodite was actually a torn pair of panties! Had the ritual been for anyone else I would have been utterly mortified and begging forgiveness for the miasmic transgression but somehow it just seemed appropriate. I got a warm, happy feeling off of Aphrodite, as if she genuinely appreciated all that you her community had done for her. We stood there for a short while basking in her presence, and would have remained longer but a bunch of people with children in tow decided to use the steep hill near where we’d set up to get down to the river’s edge, so we decided to pack it up early. (Amusingly – and inexplicably – a gentleman was carrying a pristine rose as he walked past us even though he didn’t seem the type who’d normally be appreciative of fauna.)
Once we had everything packed away Dver carried the statue of Aphrodite in her arms and we began our procession through the abundant Owen’s memorial rose garden. There are dozens of different varieties of roses alone – as well as foxgloves, bleeding hearts, irises and countless more flowers I can’t recall. All of them were in bloom and wowing us with their beauty. Dver had Aphrodite wrapped in a silken crimson sheet with her head peaking out so that she could glimpse the flowers, but able to be covered up when we encountered noisy, offensive and profane people. Thankfully we didn’t run into many of those – in fact, most of the people there were deeply appreciative of the flowers, one frat-boy crouching down so he could snap pictures with his phone’s camera, a grizzled old biker couple talking at length about the exotic breeds on display, some kids eagerly leading grandma around by the hand trying to stump her even though she knew all of the varieties by heart and so on. We also, appropriately enough, ran into a band playing music at the end of the labyrinth and people setting up for a wedding reception a little further on. I’m sure that the happy couple will be blessed with an abundance of love, fertility and luck seeing as they auspiciously chose a festival of Aphrodite for their nuptial day! Granted, I had originally planned to celebrate this festival on the 5th of the lunar month, nearly a week previously – but still! Maybe that’s why I felt compelled to move it back so that it’d coincide with their plans!
Anyway, it was a marvelous festival and we spent the remainder of the day in pleasant leisure, my partner finishing up some of her gorgeous jewelry which seemed most appropriate. Also, we had really good weather for it, especially since it decided to pour about an hour after we got back and didn’t really let up until late in the evening. So thank you Aphrodite for smiling upon us – and thank you to everyone else who contributed to making this festival so special.
Here are some of the wonderful things that people have shared.
* P. Sufenas Lupus‘ delightful poem honoring a very contemporary form of Aphrodite.
Valiel‘s striking hymn to Aphrodite.
* redshoes‘ gorgeous colored sketch of Aphrodite, as well as some other lovely images and a prayer.
* Melia‘s statue of Aphrodite Rhodophoros and what she’s done to care for it.
* Erik‘s poem The Ocean (which technically wasn’t written for this festival but fits perfectly, and he shared the link in a comment, so I’m counting it!)
* harmonyfb‘s celebration of the Rhodophoria at the beach.
* Nykti shares an account of her celebration, with many lovely photos.
And, I think that’s all that’s available online. Feel free to post a link in the comments if you’ve got something up, or just tell us what you did as I’m sure we’d all love to hear it.
I’m going to attempt to write up what I did, although most of what I did/said won’t be written because it was deeply personal. Mine was probably significantly less… busy than what many did. Although I think just what I did and WHY was able to break a couple of blocks down that I’ve had up that have prevented me from going any farther in my spirituality in the past. :)
I’ll be sure to link it to you if I do! :)
Please do, as this sounds most intriguing!
Here is mine: http://nyktipolos.wordpress.com/2011/06/16/aphrodites-rhodophoria-2011/ It’s honestly not the best of posts, because I start writing it, and when I was done I took out almost half the content because I just didn’t want that information to be public. Hopefully it still makes sense and looks nice. :)
I understand completely. Though I probably share far more than I should, a good deal of it is also kept back. I very much look forward to reading your account!
Thank you for including my poem in your festival! It sounds like a wonderful time was had all around.
It was such a lovely and appropriate poem – how could I not?
Your festival sounds beautiful. :)
Ours was…interesting. We got to the beach at low tide, and it was strangely deserted (at least our corner of it.) We had to walk across the exposed bottom to reach the water, and it was littered with little tiny moon jellies, glistening like jewels. We chanted as we walked, and then set the statue in the shallow water while we prayed. Each child said a prayer and threw roses into the water, where they floated away.
We were going to stay at the beach, but I couldn’t find the sunscreen, so we came back home. After we anointed her statue with rose oil and returned her to the shrine, I fixed us a picnic supper. We ate in the back yard and then went swimming in our backyard pool. That was where I felt her presence most strongly; in the shade, with my children laughing and splashing. :)
Wow, that sounds incredible! I love, love, love seeing people include their children in their celebrations.
Kids are wonderful element to rituals. They do some of the most spontanious beautiful stuff. My daughter all but hords my lyre (though we have finger cymbals now too for those festivals in which it is appropriate like the Thargelia and probably in the upcoming Aphrodisia). As it is my daughter and I just got our matching libation kylix..so libations certainly abound in our household :)
[...] A little prayer for Aphrodite in this festive time. To learn about Rhodophoria: here and here. [...]
How beautiful! I’m glad you had such a full, appropriate day!
I opened my book of Sappho right to the Hymn recited it in a park where I put my offerings of roses. It was not terribly eventful, but I was very moved during the reading, even though I’ve read it a thousand times. I ended up reading most of Sappho’s corpus to Her (sadly small and fragmentary, of course).
I’m usually alone in the park, but I did see a number of couples walking by in the distance. The whole event had a warm ambiance. :)
Oh, that’s wonderful! And I feel that ambiance and little “coincidences” like that are ways through which the gods make their presences felt to us.
Speaking of Sappho, have you read the “new” poem by her on old age that was rediscovered and published back around 2004? It’s one of the longest pieces to have come down to us, though sadly still far too fragmentary.
From my experience botanical gardens tend to be one of the few places that the noisy mobs don’t go to. It certainly sound though like you had a lovely ritual for Aphrodite! I am planning Aphrodisia in July, from what I have read that was the Aphrodisia in Delos. So I making plans for that on top of those rituals between now and then :)
Reading this makes me wish that I had a botanical garden to escape to for part of the ritual. As it was some local kids uprooted my baby laurel and I am hoping I can get it going again. But I may consider making a small crown for aphrodite out of rosemary and whatever flowers I can find.
I am working on a painting for Aphrodite though in which the goddess is holding a pigeon with myrtle in the background so that will probably be the focus image for the ritual since I haven’t been able to as of yet afford to get my things :)
Gardens are indeed a marvelous place in which to honor Aphrodite En Kepois. I look forward to hearing about your Delian Aphrodisia and hope the bastards who uprooted your laurel suffer for it!